kinks + permissions

[harel]

“I am always open to new ideas.”

[OOC] Backtagging: Absolutely! Threadhopping: Go for it. Fourthwalling: Doesn't bother me (or Solas) at all. Offensive subjects (elaborate): None that I'm worried about. [IC] Hugging this character: Go for it. He'll freeze up, but the guy could use some hugs. On that note, CASUAL PHYSICAL TOUCHING IS ALWAYS OKAY. Grab his hand, his wrist, touch his elbow, slap his back. He's not used to being touched and he secretly really adores it. Kissing this character: Your character can always go for a kiss, but if it comes out of nowhere, please leave room for him to stop you. Flirting with this character: Yes, do. Feel free to make him super uncomfortable, too. I live on Solas's discomfort. Fighting with this character: Verbal fights are always welcome. Solas tends to avoid physical confrontations, so ping me if you want to go this route. Injuring this character (include limits and severity): Bruises and scrapes are fine. Ping me if you want to do major damage. The likelihood of me saying no is slim, but let's talk it out. Killing this character: Not at this time, please. Using telepathy/mind reading abilities on this character: Definitely ping me about this. I'm pretty much okay with characters rooting around in his head, but there are some things he keeps walled off, and he can kick your character out. Surface thoughts are okay to grab, but he's not going to let anyone find out he's the Dread Wolf, at least not at first, and the reveal is pretty important to members of his cast. Warnings: Solas is that quintessential grumpy old man in love with the Old Country. He has a disparaging view of everyone, including his own race, and frequently makes backhanded and racist statements. He can be tempered, however, so if that bothers you please let me know and I'll reel him in. He'll still be pedantic, scathing, and condescending at times, but I can keep him from being a total ass. [Kinks] A complete kink list can be found here. This one mirrors it but is heavily annotated because I feel the need to clarify everything. Hover over underlined text for my annotations. FAVORITES YES MAYBE NO Anal Sex Biting Boundless Optimism Clothed Sex Cunnilingus (Giving) Dirty Talking Ear Play Fellatio (Performing) Humor/Comedy Inexperienced Partners Intelligent Partners Language/Voice Lingerie Magic Users Multiple Orgasms Oral Sex (Giving) Oral Sex (Receiving) Orgasm Control/Denial Romance Vaginal Sex (Giving) Very Experienced Partners 3+ Penetration Blindfolds Cuddling Double Penetration Face-Fucking Food Play Handjobs/Fingerjobs Kissing Light/Medium Bondage Masks Masturbation May/December Romances Muscle Worship/Muscular Partners Sex Toys Sexual Frustration Sexual Restraints Shaving Sloppy Seconds Teasing Voyeurism Begging Breath Control Dubcon Fellatio (Receiving) Frotting Hahren/Dalen Multiple Partners Pegging Pleasure Control/Denial Spanking Strap-ons Tentacles Ageplay Anal Fisting Anal Prolapse Branding Caging Choking Daddy/Littles Degradation Extreme Humiliation Fear Leash & Collar Macrophilia Male Pregnancy Master/Pet Master/Slave Nipple Penetration Nonconsensual Pseudo-rape Sexual Pain Torture Transformation Urethra Play Verbal Abuse Vore Watersports Hard OOC limits include vore, bathroom stuff, daddy kink, gore, and torture. I typically find writing intense humiliation scenes uncomfortable, but I'm willing to bend on that, especially if it's necessary for a character's development. Solas will not budge on hardcore BDSM or master/slave play nor is he at all interested in causing partners pain or dehumanizing them. While he isn't exceptionally kinky, he'll try almost anything with a partner he trusts (as long as it doesn't violate his hard limits). He'll also spin sex out for hours if his partner gives him the chance. Time really isn't something that concerns him.